I'm sorry that you are dealing with all of this! I haven't had an IUD and fibroids combo, but have had ovarian cysts, uterine fibroids and endometriosis. I highly recommend Dr. Hibner and Dr. Desai at the Advanced Gynecology and Pelvic Pain at St. Joseph's Hospital in Phoenix, AZ. They performed two of my surgeries and really helped me out.
Michael Hibner, MD, PhD, FACOG, is the Director of Division of Advanced Gynecology and Pelvic Pain at St. Joseph’s Hospital and Medical Center.
Nita A. Desai, MD, is a Gynecologic Surgeon in the Division of Advanced Gynecology and Pelvic Pain at St. Joseph’s Hospital and Medical Center.
I agree, you should get a second opinion and stay away from a hysterectomy if at all possible. Again, sorry you're in so much pain but do hope you get some help soon.
Keep us posted and let us know how you are doing.