I'm a guy and am now in my 50's, when I was in my 20's I had a shot fling with someone that I still know and care for very much we have always stayed close and I still have feeling for her but I Love my Wife of 35 years and we have 7 children I Love all of then Very Much! Kids can be glue to a relationship but it is always a risk! Both of you need to get into some counsiling and if He won't do that then I would move on with my life. Men are alot like kids that in some respects never grow up. I see it in myself as well as others. Some of us are 17 and revert back into children and others of us just stay children seem to have to have there cake and eat it too. I'm so thankful that my wife let me have a second chance and have such a great life and family, sometime/most of the times guys just don't know what they want/need. Lay down some ground rules in your relationship (things that will keep him inline so you can regain that trust again and if he won't play/live by those agreed upon rules, then...."Find someone else")! Life is too short and there are some nice guys in the world, it's just very hard to find them. I work with a lot of men and have a lot of friends but I would only recommend a few for dating. Most of them are just Dogs with not a whole lot of anything to work with! I Hope and Pray that You can work this out, but remember the clock is clicking and you can not turn back the hands of time! For a man, Looking is Human, Touching when your Dating or Married is "Shop Lifting "Theft"! You Don't Need to be Married to a Thief of Hearts!"
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I'm a guy and am now in my 50's, when I was in my 20's I had a shot fling with someone that I still know and care for very much we have always stayed close and I still have feeling for her but I Love my Wife of 35 years and we have 7 children I Love all of then Very Much! Kids can be glue to a relationship but it is always a risk! Both of you need to get into some counsiling and if He won't do that then I would move on with my life. Men are alot like kids that in some respects never grow up. I see it in myself as well as others. Some of us are 17 and revert back into children and others of us just stay children seem to have to have there cake and eat it too. I'm so thankful that my wife let me have a second chance and have such a great life and family, sometime/most of the times guys just don't know what they want/need. Lay down some ground rules in your relationship (things that will keep him inline so you can regain that trust again and if he won't play/live by those agreed upon rules, then...."Find someone else")! Life is too short and there are some nice guys in the world, it's just very hard to find them. I work with a lot of men and have a lot of friends but I would only recommend a few for dating. Most of them are just Dogs with not a whole lot of anything to work with! I Hope and Pray that You can work this out, but remember the clock is clicking and you can not turn back the hands of time! For a man, Looking is Human, Touching when your Dating or Married is "Shop Lifting "Theft"! You Don't Need to be Married to a Thief of Hearts!"
May 6, 2011 - 6:13amSigned "K"
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