I was married to one of "THESE" for 30 years. Mine was absolutely charming to anyone outside the family (we endured a HITLER type of control behind closed doors) and is very well respected at work, so much so that immediately after divorce ( he instigated and blamed me for) he met a wonderful lady whilst out dog walking. The lovely lady took him home for the evening and the very next day they were a couple (she is a work colleague he's worked with for 12years.) He once described her to my daughter as a BITCH "he would not like to cross.") He proposed after a week together (this marriage proposal happened the day after my daughter told him how disgusted she was at their behavior and unbeknown to the new wife, he only did this to appease my daughter.) They have now been together two years (during which time he worked away & spent only weekends at home....however he's now home permanently) and it seems he's the perfect husband, step daddy, and grandfather having nothing to do with his children and grand children but at the moment seems to be reaching out to our son who lives with me. The new wife seems to disappear when my son visits our family home where he was actually forced to leave. Can anybody tell me if his TRAITS will surface in this new life of his, as it seems I've done all the hard work and this new wife and family have come in and are REAPING ALL I EVER WISHED FOR ....and it hurts
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I was married to one of "THESE" for 30 years. Mine was absolutely charming to anyone outside the family (we endured a HITLER type of control behind closed doors) and is very well respected at work, so much so that immediately after divorce ( he instigated and blamed me for) he met a wonderful lady whilst out dog walking. The lovely lady took him home for the evening and the very next day they were a couple (she is a work colleague he's worked with for 12years.) He once described her to my daughter as a BITCH "he would not like to cross.") He proposed after a week together (this marriage proposal happened the day after my daughter told him how disgusted she was at their behavior and unbeknown to the new wife, he only did this to appease my daughter.) They have now been together two years (during which time he worked away & spent only weekends at home....however he's now home permanently) and it seems he's the perfect husband, step daddy, and grandfather having nothing to do with his children and grand children but at the moment seems to be reaching out to our son who lives with me. The new wife seems to disappear when my son visits our family home where he was actually forced to leave. Can anybody tell me if his TRAITS will surface in this new life of his, as it seems I've done all the hard work and this new wife and family have come in and are REAPING ALL I EVER WISHED FOR ....and it hurts
July 29, 2014 - 3:45pmThis Comment
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