You are not just marrying an abusive man you are stuck with him. Do you fully comprehend what that means for you and for any future children. They are right you will loose your sense of self and any happiness are you really willing to sacrifice that just because it might make you family embarressed for a time. Please re-think a bad marriage is for life with an abuser/hardly any ways out that won't be worse than seperation before the marriage. A divorce if even legal in India would probably be worse for your family and your future. You are walking into this with your heads somewhat in the clouds, I think you should get out of said clouds asap! I have had almost 25 years with a very controlling man who is emotionally abusive and sometimes scary it has affected my very soul
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You are not just marrying an abusive man you are stuck with him. Do you fully comprehend what that means for you and for any future children. They are right you will loose your sense of self and any happiness are you really willing to sacrifice that just because it might make you family embarressed for a time. Please re-think a bad marriage is for life with an abuser/hardly any ways out that won't be worse than seperation before the marriage. A divorce if even legal in India would probably be worse for your family and your future. You are walking into this with your heads somewhat in the clouds, I think you should get out of said clouds asap! I have had almost 25 years with a very controlling man who is emotionally abusive and sometimes scary it has affected my very soul
October 23, 2014 - 8:58pmThis Comment
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