I'm praying for you.I have children and no support either. My husband doesn't want me to work. He works away for months at a time. We do visit him quite often, usually 1-2 weekends a month and every time my children are on break from school. My children are in private school and lots of after school activities, which is very expensive. I have played this out in my mind since before they were born. It gets harder and harder to leave . I don't see him more than half of the year so I've been able to deal with it. It's to the point now where it's affecting my children. I've been an emotional roller coaster. All I have is them. I feel like I'm beginning to take my emotions out on them and I will not do this much longer. I tried talking to him about it, but he thinks I'm crazy. I do love him dearly. He has lots of great qualities that I do admire, but I just wish and pray for him to recognize the issues and put forth an effort to change. He is a hardworking and honest man, but he is so self consumed it's a nightmare. He is always right, arrogant, and short tempered. He doesn't care about my opinion, how I feel, or what I'm dealing with on a daily basis. I don't know what to do. I can't imagine living without him, but I already am. I need help!
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I'm praying for you.I have children and no support either. My husband doesn't want me to work. He works away for months at a time. We do visit him quite often, usually 1-2 weekends a month and every time my children are on break from school. My children are in private school and lots of after school activities, which is very expensive. I have played this out in my mind since before they were born. It gets harder and harder to leave . I don't see him more than half of the year so I've been able to deal with it. It's to the point now where it's affecting my children. I've been an emotional roller coaster. All I have is them. I feel like I'm beginning to take my emotions out on them and I will not do this much longer. I tried talking to him about it, but he thinks I'm crazy. I do love him dearly. He has lots of great qualities that I do admire, but I just wish and pray for him to recognize the issues and put forth an effort to change. He is a hardworking and honest man, but he is so self consumed it's a nightmare. He is always right, arrogant, and short tempered. He doesn't care about my opinion, how I feel, or what I'm dealing with on a daily basis. I don't know what to do. I can't imagine living without him, but I already am. I need help!
November 1, 2014 - 8:52pmThis Comment
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