Is it God that is telling you to stay? Or is it fear? Gods greatest gift to man is his wife. That is, besides our LORD that is. Is he treating you like you are his greatest gift? You mentioned that you feel that he has checked out. That he only uses you. God tells as to pray for those who hurt us. He also tells us to guard our hearts. God is love. Perfect love. Why do you think God is telling you to stay with a man who does not treat you the way God commanded us to treat each other? "Do unto others as I have done for you". Someone once told me that I have the love of God because I was, and unfortunately am, in love with my beloved despite the awful things he's done to me. You have unconditionally loved this man. You have given him your most precious possession. Now instead of taking care of you, and being a Godly husband as you deserve he is destroying your spirit. Why would God want that for his daughter? You can not make your husband choose God. God gave us free will to test us. Will we love God or the world? Your husband knows he is hurting you, no doubt. He is unfaithful and has taken away love from you to give to another? I'm not perfect but I would not continue to hurt anyone , let alone my beloved. I don't know why God wants You to be unhappy because of your husband? You can pray for him, you can plant seeds, only God will make those grow. If your husband isn't accepting Gods love, you are "casting your pearls before swine". I know what it is like to love him and do anything to make him happy, only to Be ignored, cheated on countless times, lied to, used, lied about, treated like trash....exc. It left me empty, and feeling worthless. The pain goes deep into Your soul. If your light isn't already out, continuing as is will put It out. I thought it was my duty to save my beloved soul. I thought If I loved him enough He would stop and return the love to me. I loved him with everything I had. The only thing that changed was me. I did things with him that I didn't want to do just to show him that I loved him more then anything. All of my love and everything I had done because of him only made me a stop loving myself. I suggest you pray for yourself more and ask God what he wants you to do. Then read Your bible. Because you are lost. Your husband left you but God will look for you. He tells us that he wrote us everything we need. Its his letter to you. You will find answers there and with him. Fear is not from God. He gave us HIS spirit. He gave us HIS power over evil. Evil comes in many forms. It comes to steal our JOY! One more thing, Our FATHER did not raise us to be abused. I pray your life soon is filled with Joy and love from above!
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Is it God that is telling you to stay? Or is it fear? Gods greatest gift to man is his wife. That is, besides our LORD that is. Is he treating you like you are his greatest gift? You mentioned that you feel that he has checked out. That he only uses you. God tells as to pray for those who hurt us. He also tells us to guard our hearts. God is love. Perfect love. Why do you think God is telling you to stay with a man who does not treat you the way God commanded us to treat each other? "Do unto others as I have done for you". Someone once told me that I have the love of God because I was, and unfortunately am, in love with my beloved despite the awful things he's done to me. You have unconditionally loved this man. You have given him your most precious possession. Now instead of taking care of you, and being a Godly husband as you deserve he is destroying your spirit. Why would God want that for his daughter? You can not make your husband choose God. God gave us free will to test us. Will we love God or the world? Your husband knows he is hurting you, no doubt. He is unfaithful and has taken away love from you to give to another? I'm not perfect but I would not continue to hurt anyone , let alone my beloved. I don't know why God wants You to be unhappy because of your husband? You can pray for him, you can plant seeds, only God will make those grow. If your husband isn't accepting Gods love, you are "casting your pearls before swine". I know what it is like to love him and do anything to make him happy, only to Be ignored, cheated on countless times, lied to, used, lied about, treated like trash....exc. It left me empty, and feeling worthless. The pain goes deep into Your soul. If your light isn't already out, continuing as is will put It out. I thought it was my duty to save my beloved soul. I thought If I loved him enough He would stop and return the love to me. I loved him with everything I had. The only thing that changed was me. I did things with him that I didn't want to do just to show him that I loved him more then anything. All of my love and everything I had done because of him only made me a stop loving myself. I suggest you pray for yourself more and ask God what he wants you to do. Then read Your bible. Because you are lost. Your husband left you but God will look for you. He tells us that he wrote us everything we need. Its his letter to you. You will find answers there and with him. Fear is not from God. He gave us HIS spirit. He gave us HIS power over evil. Evil comes in many forms. It comes to steal our JOY! One more thing, Our FATHER did not raise us to be abused. I pray your life soon is filled with Joy and love from above!
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