Hi I am in a similar situation and actually can't believe it's happening to me, I never thought I'd be the abused woman...even though I grew up with abuse and have heard many times what u see and grow up with you repeat in your marriage, hell I didn't see it because my soon to be ex was/is a charmer, Mr Nice guy he had everyone fooled, mostly me and I'm still in denial i literally talk to everyone, anyone who will give me an ear and say what do you think and everyone thinks its abuse and oppression and i still don't believe it thats how brainwashed i am and i really need to wake up, i have two kids with this serial bully and i don't see any change since the day we got married which was 5 years ago. He has emotionally mentally psychologically and most of all financially abused me but will never ever admit it he lives in denial and will never take responsibility for his own self. Instead he will turn the tables "your rubbish with money" "rubbish wife" "babysitter" its disgusting and demeaning and now he's about to lose us but will not even fight for us so the way it goes for the abuser is they use you then discard you and discarded he has. They say though never underestimate an abused woman's power and strength and i am getting stronger each day for my children. Im glad i came across this site and thanks for allowing me to share my story it is healing for me. Im not perfect but i do strive to have a balanced healthy mutual respect for another and that is not how my ex wants to operate, it is sad and still feels very surreal but something in me has snapped and I'm not going back to abuse no more.
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Hi I am in a similar situation and actually can't believe it's happening to me, I never thought I'd be the abused woman...even though I grew up with abuse and have heard many times what u see and grow up with you repeat in your marriage, hell I didn't see it because my soon to be ex was/is a charmer, Mr Nice guy he had everyone fooled, mostly me and I'm still in denial i literally talk to everyone, anyone who will give me an ear and say what do you think and everyone thinks its abuse and oppression and i still don't believe it thats how brainwashed i am and i really need to wake up, i have two kids with this serial bully and i don't see any change since the day we got married which was 5 years ago. He has emotionally mentally psychologically and most of all financially abused me but will never ever admit it he lives in denial and will never take responsibility for his own self. Instead he will turn the tables "your rubbish with money" "rubbish wife" "babysitter" its disgusting and demeaning and now he's about to lose us but will not even fight for us so the way it goes for the abuser is they use you then discard you and discarded he has. They say though never underestimate an abused woman's power and strength and i am getting stronger each day for my children. Im glad i came across this site and thanks for allowing me to share my story it is healing for me. Im not perfect but i do strive to have a balanced healthy mutual respect for another and that is not how my ex wants to operate, it is sad and still feels very surreal but something in me has snapped and I'm not going back to abuse no more.
February 24, 2015 - 3:22pmThis Comment
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