You know it's an odd thing - when you change, you force others to change b/c what worked before doesn't work anymore. If you put up new boundaries, communicate with ownership ('I' statements are key here) and decide enough is enough, your new reality will show itself. I realized that the pain of staying was greater than the pain of leaving and that was it for me. I hope you remember to take care of you, and feed yourself with all things positive as the ebbing away of self-esteem is super tricky and can be devastating. I send you a big high five and a huge hug! Be true to you:))
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You know it's an odd thing - when you change, you force others to change b/c what worked before doesn't work anymore. If you put up new boundaries, communicate with ownership ('I' statements are key here) and decide enough is enough, your new reality will show itself. I realized that the pain of staying was greater than the pain of leaving and that was it for me. I hope you remember to take care of you, and feed yourself with all things positive as the ebbing away of self-esteem is super tricky and can be devastating. I send you a big high five and a huge hug! Be true to you:))
June 14, 2011 - 10:08amThis Comment
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