I have dreams about one of my ex's in particular. Things ended badly with us and we never got the closure we really needed. Until a few months ago when he came over to visit me. Ever since, I've been dreaming about him and it seems like he's always on my mind.
And I don't want that. I'm married. To a man who HATES my ex. Who, if he knew these things were happening, would leave me for emotionally cheating on him. Which I agree that's what's happening. I'm not 100% focused on my relationship with my husband because this vision of my ex keeps floating around in my brain.
I understand that it's healthy to have a sentimental rememberance of what was, but how do we officially move on to what is, without leaving everything else behind? How can we stand to "donate that old pair of jeans"?
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I have dreams about one of my ex's in particular. Things ended badly with us and we never got the closure we really needed. Until a few months ago when he came over to visit me. Ever since, I've been dreaming about him and it seems like he's always on my mind.
And I don't want that. I'm married. To a man who HATES my ex. Who, if he knew these things were happening, would leave me for emotionally cheating on him. Which I agree that's what's happening. I'm not 100% focused on my relationship with my husband because this vision of my ex keeps floating around in my brain.
I understand that it's healthy to have a sentimental rememberance of what was, but how do we officially move on to what is, without leaving everything else behind? How can we stand to "donate that old pair of jeans"?
May 15, 2011 - 10:58amThis Comment
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