Since you are able to feel physical sensation and pleasure from his finger inside your vagina, you may need to give sex some more time and practice. There are so many reasons that you did not feel pleasure during your first sexual experience, and it could have been your expectations, anxiety or nervousness, or simply the sexual position.
Try some new sexual positions, and experiment with the physical sensations of each. If you felt that you were not lubricated enough ("wet"), you can also use some lubrication that you purchase at the drug store, and see if that helps with sensation.
Give it some more time, as well as make sure your mind AND body are both relaxed and ready for pleasure in the physical and emotional sense...and see if these suggestions help.
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Since you are able to feel physical sensation and pleasure from his finger inside your vagina, you may need to give sex some more time and practice. There are so many reasons that you did not feel pleasure during your first sexual experience, and it could have been your expectations, anxiety or nervousness, or simply the sexual position.
Try some new sexual positions, and experiment with the physical sensations of each. If you felt that you were not lubricated enough ("wet"), you can also use some lubrication that you purchase at the drug store, and see if that helps with sensation.
Give it some more time, as well as make sure your mind AND body are both relaxed and ready for pleasure in the physical and emotional sense...and see if these suggestions help.
April 26, 2011 - 11:25amThis Comment
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