I feel for you CHitown4 life. I found gay porn on my boyfriend's computer a little over a year ago and he denied it at first but then he admitted to it. I told him I also saw he was on craigslist and he admitted that he emailed a guy then deleted the reply email from the guy because it "freaked him out." He said he did it because he was high and when he was alone for a long time before he met me, he was lonely and things weren't working out with women so he thought he might be gay. He felt very guilty, anxious and upset afterwards. He was crying, etc. He said he would do counseling, anything to make it work. He quit smoking pot too. We went to a handful of sessions and then he started complaining about the wait and what the therapist was saying. We stayed together and I tried to be there for him and forget it but it still bothers me today. Now I don't know what is happening between us and he doesn't seem like he wants to own up to it or he doesn't really seem remorseful. I am going to start taking better care of myself over our relationship and start seeing a therapist to heal the pain. So I feel for any of you ladies going through the same thing but we should remember to not feel guilty or take it personally even though that is easier said then done.
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I feel for you CHitown4 life. I found gay porn on my boyfriend's computer a little over a year ago and he denied it at first but then he admitted to it. I told him I also saw he was on craigslist and he admitted that he emailed a guy then deleted the reply email from the guy because it "freaked him out." He said he did it because he was high and when he was alone for a long time before he met me, he was lonely and things weren't working out with women so he thought he might be gay. He felt very guilty, anxious and upset afterwards. He was crying, etc. He said he would do counseling, anything to make it work. He quit smoking pot too. We went to a handful of sessions and then he started complaining about the wait and what the therapist was saying. We stayed together and I tried to be there for him and forget it but it still bothers me today. Now I don't know what is happening between us and he doesn't seem like he wants to own up to it or he doesn't really seem remorseful. I am going to start taking better care of myself over our relationship and start seeing a therapist to heal the pain. So I feel for any of you ladies going through the same thing but we should remember to not feel guilty or take it personally even though that is easier said then done.
November 19, 2014 - 5:02pmThis Comment
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