Hi Chitown4life,
Thank you for your question and for joining EmpowHER. We cannot tell you what to do, I personally can only speak from experience, and say, "trust your gut." If you have real concerns about this man and his sexual perversions (and you're not on board with whatever it is he's into) then you may want to think about moving on from this relationship. I know it won't be easy, but regardless of how it came about, things happen for a reason if you ask me and I have a feeling that if this came up, it is likely to come up again sometime in the future. The choice is yours. I don't claim to be a relationship expert by any stretch, I'm just a fellow woman giving my own opinion.
Good luck, and let us know if you need more support.
Here is an ASK that may provide some insight: EmpowHER ASK: Is my husband gay?
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Hi Chitown4life,
April 27, 2011 - 7:35amThank you for your question and for joining EmpowHER. We cannot tell you what to do, I personally can only speak from experience, and say, "trust your gut." If you have real concerns about this man and his sexual perversions (and you're not on board with whatever it is he's into) then you may want to think about moving on from this relationship. I know it won't be easy, but regardless of how it came about, things happen for a reason if you ask me and I have a feeling that if this came up, it is likely to come up again sometime in the future. The choice is yours. I don't claim to be a relationship expert by any stretch, I'm just a fellow woman giving my own opinion.
Good luck, and let us know if you need more support.
Here is an ASK that may provide some insight: EmpowHER ASK: Is my husband gay?
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