Wow. I just read your story. I am going through the exact same thing with my boyfriend. Beginning, it was great, new, and exciting..and now he's working a 3rd shift job as well. He always says he's extremely exhausted and just doesn't "want to" have sex. It drives me nuts. I don't like feeling cheap or desperate either. Every time I try talking to him about he just gets mad cause I've apparently got to change my priorities. I don't think it's a priority at all. It's a feel good thing on my part, and I rather enjoy it. When we don't have sex I feel like a part of us is missing. I hate too that it's such a big deal to me, but I don't like feeling unwanted. I tell him that constantly, and he always reassures me as well that it's not me. I think it's sad to say, but I'm somewhat comforted that I'm not the only one going through a situation like this. I just keep hoping that one day he'll come home and just have TONS of energy to take out on me. Hah. I'm in the entire same boat. I hope that I can convince him to try and find a solution for my sake, as well as our relationship. I think both of our boyfriends should see a doctor. At least we know they mean well. :) If you find an answer or a solution, let me know!
Cassie.
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Wow. I just read your story. I am going through the exact same thing with my boyfriend. Beginning, it was great, new, and exciting..and now he's working a 3rd shift job as well. He always says he's extremely exhausted and just doesn't "want to" have sex. It drives me nuts. I don't like feeling cheap or desperate either. Every time I try talking to him about he just gets mad cause I've apparently got to change my priorities. I don't think it's a priority at all. It's a feel good thing on my part, and I rather enjoy it. When we don't have sex I feel like a part of us is missing. I hate too that it's such a big deal to me, but I don't like feeling unwanted. I tell him that constantly, and he always reassures me as well that it's not me. I think it's sad to say, but I'm somewhat comforted that I'm not the only one going through a situation like this. I just keep hoping that one day he'll come home and just have TONS of energy to take out on me. Hah. I'm in the entire same boat. I hope that I can convince him to try and find a solution for my sake, as well as our relationship. I think both of our boyfriends should see a doctor. At least we know they mean well. :) If you find an answer or a solution, let me know!
May 11, 2011 - 6:55pmCassie.
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