Comment Reply

Don't marry this man. He doesn't respect you. If you think this is a problem just wait until you're married to him and real life really gets tough. You want to marry a man who doesn't want to hide anything from you because he isn't doing anything behind your back. For a marriage to work... you need to have a very very strong foundation. If this man will turn the tables on you when you confront him with something everyone knows is not right... you will always be at fault for his errors in judgement. He is not mature enough to be a husband. Good luck to you. I seriously doubt you will listen to me, but when you are going thru a divorce and you have little kids to care for on your own because this person doesn't take responsiblity, think back to this answer. I only tell you this because I looked the other way at all the red flags for the name of love too. Now I am a single mom with an ex that pays his child support "sometimes" - "when he feels like it." You don't want to be me if you can help it.