I am in a situation and need advice. I have been with my husband for 11 years. He was always accusing me of cheating, with everyone you can imagine. It caused fights all the time. I have never cheated on him, however, we separated several times and he would sleep with other women during those times he claims....So lately, past year, he was more distant, not having time to conversate with me, if he was off from work he wanted to hang out with neighbors or "friends". He became super critical, verbally and emotionally abusive to the point where I couldn't take anymore...I noticed something on the outside of my vajayjay and asked him...he told me it was a hair bump, don't worry. About two weeks later, it had become swollen, leaking blood and very painful. We had a serious argument where he called me things he had never done in past, feelings got hurt and I left....four days later I had a nervous breakdown and was admitted to a hospital for five days....on the fifth day they released me but told me before I walked out that I had trich....I hadn't talked to him, don't want to and won't now...when he got paperwork from hospital he flipped out, of course accusing me to my mom and friends....they know better....I don't even like sex, just did it so he would shut up...Of course, he says its my fault, I was a whore on the way to my moms and he doesn't have it....he is egotistical so I know he didn't get checked. I'm pretty sure he was cheating....why else would he still be trying to contact me wanting me to come home???? I'm hurt and confused. His mother can't stand me and filed a divorce...all the while he is calling my mom and leaving messages that he loves me and doesn't want a divorce....he wants to work things out etc...what is going on? If he really thought I gave it to him, why in the hell would he want me back?
His mother mailed divorce papers and I should be getting them...She wants a divorce cuz he is paying insurance through his job for me and she is a hateful bitch. His fault though cuz he told her all kinds of lies over the years about me. I'm signing divorce papers asap....He has put me at risk healthwise and how could I ever trust or forgive him? I'm devastated.
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I am in a situation and need advice. I have been with my husband for 11 years. He was always accusing me of cheating, with everyone you can imagine. It caused fights all the time. I have never cheated on him, however, we separated several times and he would sleep with other women during those times he claims....So lately, past year, he was more distant, not having time to conversate with me, if he was off from work he wanted to hang out with neighbors or "friends". He became super critical, verbally and emotionally abusive to the point where I couldn't take anymore...I noticed something on the outside of my vajayjay and asked him...he told me it was a hair bump, don't worry. About two weeks later, it had become swollen, leaking blood and very painful. We had a serious argument where he called me things he had never done in past, feelings got hurt and I left....four days later I had a nervous breakdown and was admitted to a hospital for five days....on the fifth day they released me but told me before I walked out that I had trich....I hadn't talked to him, don't want to and won't now...when he got paperwork from hospital he flipped out, of course accusing me to my mom and friends....they know better....I don't even like sex, just did it so he would shut up...Of course, he says its my fault, I was a whore on the way to my moms and he doesn't have it....he is egotistical so I know he didn't get checked. I'm pretty sure he was cheating....why else would he still be trying to contact me wanting me to come home???? I'm hurt and confused. His mother can't stand me and filed a divorce...all the while he is calling my mom and leaving messages that he loves me and doesn't want a divorce....he wants to work things out etc...what is going on? If he really thought I gave it to him, why in the hell would he want me back?
May 25, 2012 - 12:59amHis mother mailed divorce papers and I should be getting them...She wants a divorce cuz he is paying insurance through his job for me and she is a hateful bitch. His fault though cuz he told her all kinds of lies over the years about me. I'm signing divorce papers asap....He has put me at risk healthwise and how could I ever trust or forgive him? I'm devastated.
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