I'm sorry you're going through this. Unfortunately, if your boyfriend has a low testosterone level and has had many unfortunate circumstances, sex may be the last thing on his mind. The only advice I can offer to you is to be supportive, don't push the sex subject too much--after all, you already know why he isn't having sex, and if you really love him, sit this one out with him while slowly trying to uplift his spirits with activities you can both do together. If he's been given any medication ensure that he takes it as indicated.
As far as your needs, you can help ease this by pleasing yourself for a while in the meantime-- love prevails in situations like this so if you do love your boyfriend, you will support him and love him through this.
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Hi In_between87,
I'm sorry you're going through this. Unfortunately, if your boyfriend has a low testosterone level and has had many unfortunate circumstances, sex may be the last thing on his mind. The only advice I can offer to you is to be supportive, don't push the sex subject too much--after all, you already know why he isn't having sex, and if you really love him, sit this one out with him while slowly trying to uplift his spirits with activities you can both do together. If he's been given any medication ensure that he takes it as indicated.
As far as your needs, you can help ease this by pleasing yourself for a while in the meantime-- love prevails in situations like this so if you do love your boyfriend, you will support him and love him through this.
All the best,
Rosa
June 9, 2011 - 6:24amThis Comment
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