Hi Beautiful_Nightmare,
I honestly see that his reasons for talking to another females are invalid.
I won't be less attracted to a person if he/she gained weight. A women is not an object (for pleasure..etc). A women is a subject, a human being. I am pretty sure that if HE gained weight or had less muscles you will still love him the same and be attracted to him the same as before.
Hiding it from you shows bad intentions. And I am sorry to tell you that but I am being honest that's all.
And I am also pretty sure that you talking to another males would be a much bigger issue to him. So why this inequality?
My opinion is that, you should make him choose on either staying with you without any unfaithful, secretive relationships (even friend to friend relationship, unless he tell you about every detail), I mean not to hide anything from you and you both treat each other with the same manner. OR, you guys just walk in different directions.
If he chose the first solution then he loves you and you probably have to work hard on achieving what he likes in you, plus work hard on following him( coz you still not sure if he is saying the truth and not hiding again).
If he chose to leave, then take it this way, as it is better for you not to stay with a person that doesn't love you anymore.
Maybe when you take this more-serious approach he'll feel ashamed or insecure and get back to his mind, thinking that he might loose you and u are not taken for granted (i hope he'll think this way then).
Sorry, if I am being over honest or rude, but that's just my own personal opinion.
Good luck girl :)
Every girl is beautiful the way she is :)
let us know what happens.
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Hi Beautiful_Nightmare,
July 28, 2011 - 1:01amI honestly see that his reasons for talking to another females are invalid.
I won't be less attracted to a person if he/she gained weight. A women is not an object (for pleasure..etc). A women is a subject, a human being. I am pretty sure that if HE gained weight or had less muscles you will still love him the same and be attracted to him the same as before.
Hiding it from you shows bad intentions. And I am sorry to tell you that but I am being honest that's all.
And I am also pretty sure that you talking to another males would be a much bigger issue to him. So why this inequality?
My opinion is that, you should make him choose on either staying with you without any unfaithful, secretive relationships (even friend to friend relationship, unless he tell you about every detail), I mean not to hide anything from you and you both treat each other with the same manner. OR, you guys just walk in different directions.
If he chose the first solution then he loves you and you probably have to work hard on achieving what he likes in you, plus work hard on following him( coz you still not sure if he is saying the truth and not hiding again).
If he chose to leave, then take it this way, as it is better for you not to stay with a person that doesn't love you anymore.
Maybe when you take this more-serious approach he'll feel ashamed or insecure and get back to his mind, thinking that he might loose you and u are not taken for granted (i hope he'll think this way then).
Sorry, if I am being over honest or rude, but that's just my own personal opinion.
Good luck girl :)
Every girl is beautiful the way she is :)
let us know what happens.
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