hey checherry 7 ,
Yea this situation is a sucky one and dont feel bad im very new to this to ive never been on to do the online things like this but i must admit it helps alot. Now when you say has cheated on you does that mean actually sleeping with other women ?. If so i know it hutrs believe me i know it does but you may need to consider leaving beacouse once that form of trust is broken it will be very hard for you to forgive let alone feel good about yourself if you see him everyday. As in my situation we both have gained weight and i feel the same as you i dont love him any less. He is my lfe i would and have done everything in my power to make his dream come true includgin putting mine on hold. Since imade my post me and my boyfriend/ ex fiance have talked and talked and talked saying everything we feel to one another some that the other may not want to hear and something that hurts to hear but i feel that it has helped like his problem with me is that yes i have gained weight but it not really the weight alone its the fact that i have gotten to comfortable ie not wearing m,akeup doing my hair dressin like i used to dress. and so now im makeing a effort because as much as we would like to think love is all we need thats not tru as women we need to make a effort to keep our man at home cuz if we dont thier is some trivaling women out there that would love to break up a happy home. Also we talked bout our sex life sinced men are obviously driven ont hat and he jus wanted us to change it up which is funny because that is what i wanted like i told him i love sex everything about buit i havent been as adventous as i was befor because i felt he wasnt into, So i guess what im sayin is if you both realy love each other an it has got to be both not just u TALK talk intill both of you feel that u have said everything u need to till both of you are happy. By my man jus telling me weight was a problem he feel sooo much better because he know im conious of it and the in turn will work at it. Now as far as him stayin faithful there is no secret tips if he want ot go cheat he will but usually the reason is he is not happy at home so ask him what it is and tell him u need the answer no matter how bad it will hurt. Lossing weight ides i dont know because i havent been eating and thats not what u need to to do that make losing weight worse so maybe somene else can help u with that but me and my man are talking walks around the neighborhood together so maybe try that . i hope this helps i mean this is what im tryin and i think its step in the right direction. I myself have issue with the trsust and feeling good about myself so i cant give to much advice on that but best of luck !! and if thats u in the pic on you are beautiful and deserve to feel and be treated that way best of luck hun!!
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hey checherry 7 ,
July 30, 2011 - 2:49pmYea this situation is a sucky one and dont feel bad im very new to this to ive never been on to do the online things like this but i must admit it helps alot. Now when you say has cheated on you does that mean actually sleeping with other women ?. If so i know it hutrs believe me i know it does but you may need to consider leaving beacouse once that form of trust is broken it will be very hard for you to forgive let alone feel good about yourself if you see him everyday. As in my situation we both have gained weight and i feel the same as you i dont love him any less. He is my lfe i would and have done everything in my power to make his dream come true includgin putting mine on hold. Since imade my post me and my boyfriend/ ex fiance have talked and talked and talked saying everything we feel to one another some that the other may not want to hear and something that hurts to hear but i feel that it has helped like his problem with me is that yes i have gained weight but it not really the weight alone its the fact that i have gotten to comfortable ie not wearing m,akeup doing my hair dressin like i used to dress. and so now im makeing a effort because as much as we would like to think love is all we need thats not tru as women we need to make a effort to keep our man at home cuz if we dont thier is some trivaling women out there that would love to break up a happy home. Also we talked bout our sex life sinced men are obviously driven ont hat and he jus wanted us to change it up which is funny because that is what i wanted like i told him i love sex everything about buit i havent been as adventous as i was befor because i felt he wasnt into, So i guess what im sayin is if you both realy love each other an it has got to be both not just u TALK talk intill both of you feel that u have said everything u need to till both of you are happy. By my man jus telling me weight was a problem he feel sooo much better because he know im conious of it and the in turn will work at it. Now as far as him stayin faithful there is no secret tips if he want ot go cheat he will but usually the reason is he is not happy at home so ask him what it is and tell him u need the answer no matter how bad it will hurt. Lossing weight ides i dont know because i havent been eating and thats not what u need to to do that make losing weight worse so maybe somene else can help u with that but me and my man are talking walks around the neighborhood together so maybe try that . i hope this helps i mean this is what im tryin and i think its step in the right direction. I myself have issue with the trsust and feeling good about myself so i cant give to much advice on that but best of luck !! and if thats u in the pic on you are beautiful and deserve to feel and be treated that way best of luck hun!!
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