In my opinion i believe talking to another woman in a flirtatious manor is inappropriate. The fact that it was sort of kept from you is a red flag. And it has happened again. I hate how they try to use the whole 'i didn't want to tell you because you would get upset' excuse. As if keeping it from you wont upset you? Flirtatious texting can lead to other things. And as far as him not being attracted to you because you gained a little weight is no excuse. That doesn't change the kind of person you are. If you started working out to get in better shape good for you! However, doing it to make him happy isn't right. If you feel good with yourself why cant he? Don't try and change anything about yourself to make anybody else happy. And since you've started working out you mentioned you don't want him to touch you, and your self conscious about eating around him., isn't healthy. If he cant see you for all the beautiful things you have to offer, then why is he worth changing for?
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In my opinion i believe talking to another woman in a flirtatious manor is inappropriate. The fact that it was sort of kept from you is a red flag. And it has happened again. I hate how they try to use the whole 'i didn't want to tell you because you would get upset' excuse. As if keeping it from you wont upset you? Flirtatious texting can lead to other things. And as far as him not being attracted to you because you gained a little weight is no excuse. That doesn't change the kind of person you are. If you started working out to get in better shape good for you! However, doing it to make him happy isn't right. If you feel good with yourself why cant he? Don't try and change anything about yourself to make anybody else happy. And since you've started working out you mentioned you don't want him to touch you, and your self conscious about eating around him., isn't healthy. If he cant see you for all the beautiful things you have to offer, then why is he worth changing for?
August 22, 2011 - 10:36pmThis Comment
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