if your not comfortable with yourself then i think getting in shape would help your self esteem. But i don't think getting in shape to make your husband happy is healthy. I understand you want him to be attracted to you, who doesn't? I would be hurt if my partner wasn't attracted to me because i had gained weight. Try getting in shape for yourself, not him. That can give you a good confidence boost. Take the kids with you even your husband! Just do it for YOU! Make yourself feel beautiful, don't rely on others. When you feel good about yourself, everyone around you will see it and reciprocate.
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if your not comfortable with yourself then i think getting in shape would help your self esteem. But i don't think getting in shape to make your husband happy is healthy. I understand you want him to be attracted to you, who doesn't? I would be hurt if my partner wasn't attracted to me because i had gained weight. Try getting in shape for yourself, not him. That can give you a good confidence boost. Take the kids with you even your husband! Just do it for YOU! Make yourself feel beautiful, don't rely on others. When you feel good about yourself, everyone around you will see it and reciprocate.
August 23, 2011 - 5:02pmThis Comment
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