The problem is I hve tried to talk to him about it and even asked him if it is me. He claims it isnt. Im very opened and willing to do what I need to to fix the problem but he isnt big on communicating with me. Like I said he has issues from drugs and I know he isnt cheating. I dont know how to fix a problem that he doesnt really see as a problem. He acts as though there is nothing wrong with not having sex.