Unfortunately, it is not this simple. My son is 14 months and is with my Mother while I am at work. I am on the verge of tears 3 days a week leaving him. We live a very simple life, but would have no home without 2 sources of income. It has nothing to do with career, and everything to do with just surviving. You should thank God that you are able to be home with your children, instead of teaching them to pass judgement on others. Boo.