hi rose, thanks for responding to my question. I totally agree with everything you said. I know being physical with my boyfriend is wrong on every level.There's no excuse. And thank god he's a good person and would never lay a finger on me. I know he has lost respect for me and i don't blame him. He's told me this. That's another reason why i have decided to go back to my therapist. I defiantly need to put forth A LOT of effort to show him i love and respect him, and that i want this to work. Especially because we have a child together. I don't want our son growing up in a dysfunctional lifestyle where mommy hits daddy.
On the other issue with our relationship, i guess now it does kind of make more sense why he doesn't want to be intimate. I mean if the tables were turned i know i wouldn't want to either. Thank you for bringing this into the light for me. I need to change my ways. I need more patience for both of them. It's funny, of all the things he says he wants from me, its patience. That's the key word!!
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hi rose, thanks for responding to my question. I totally agree with everything you said. I know being physical with my boyfriend is wrong on every level.There's no excuse. And thank god he's a good person and would never lay a finger on me. I know he has lost respect for me and i don't blame him. He's told me this. That's another reason why i have decided to go back to my therapist. I defiantly need to put forth A LOT of effort to show him i love and respect him, and that i want this to work. Especially because we have a child together. I don't want our son growing up in a dysfunctional lifestyle where mommy hits daddy.
On the other issue with our relationship, i guess now it does kind of make more sense why he doesn't want to be intimate. I mean if the tables were turned i know i wouldn't want to either. Thank you for bringing this into the light for me. I need to change my ways. I need more patience for both of them. It's funny, of all the things he says he wants from me, its patience. That's the key word!!
Thank you rosa for your time and advice.
August 23, 2011 - 2:46pmBetty :)
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