Thanks for your question and welcome to EmpowHer! The truth is that there are many different reasons why men don't want to have as much sex as we think they would. One reason affecting your relationship could be the fact that he is older than you- you're 20 years old so I would venture to say that you are probably wanting to explore your sexuality with him and he's just not as into it as you are because he's been there/done that at his mature age of 31. Now, if all of his relationships have ended due to his lack of sex drive then there may be an underlying health condition going on and if he's open for it, a simple doctor's visit can rule this out. It also doesn't help that he lives a sedentary lifestyle.
Here's some more help for you:
https://www.empowher.com/community/ask/why-doesnt-my-boyfriend-want-have-sex-me-anymore
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Hi guitargirl8,
Thanks for your question and welcome to EmpowHer! The truth is that there are many different reasons why men don't want to have as much sex as we think they would. One reason affecting your relationship could be the fact that he is older than you- you're 20 years old so I would venture to say that you are probably wanting to explore your sexuality with him and he's just not as into it as you are because he's been there/done that at his mature age of 31. Now, if all of his relationships have ended due to his lack of sex drive then there may be an underlying health condition going on and if he's open for it, a simple doctor's visit can rule this out. It also doesn't help that he lives a sedentary lifestyle.
Here's some more help for you:
https://www.empowher.com/community/ask/why-doesnt-my-boyfriend-want-have-sex-me-anymore
https://www.empowher.com/community/ask/why-doesnt-my-boyfriend-want-have-sex-me-6
Hope this helps,
Rosa
August 26, 2011 - 4:18amThis Comment
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