Thanks for your question. Being "Friended" on facebook by female co-workers of your fiance isn't really unusual-- Lots of people will friend boyfriends/girlfriends/wives of a person that they know or work with. What's odd is that one of them would even get the idea that she MAY have come home with you two the night she saw you. My thought is that your fiance and her may have already talked about this before--whether it was at work or at some other time. I meet couples all the time and under no circumstance do I ever feel like they want to have threesomes with me nor do I feel like I want to have a threesome with them-- know what I mean? Did you guys talk about this over drinks that night?
As far as your sex life, this could very well have something to do with it. He could be let down by the fact that you're not up for sex with him and a stranger-- don't be afraid to stand up for what you believe in. Now is the time to decide if this is the guy you want to marry. Quite frankly, sex isn't a reward-- so, I don't quite understand what he is asking you to "earn". It seems to me like you are not on the same page and it needs to be addressed with honesty so that he knows what you want and you know what he wants. Whether or not he is cheating on you is not for me to say but you are a woman-- always follow your intuition.
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Hi SummerP,
Thanks for your question. Being "Friended" on facebook by female co-workers of your fiance isn't really unusual-- Lots of people will friend boyfriends/girlfriends/wives of a person that they know or work with. What's odd is that one of them would even get the idea that she MAY have come home with you two the night she saw you. My thought is that your fiance and her may have already talked about this before--whether it was at work or at some other time. I meet couples all the time and under no circumstance do I ever feel like they want to have threesomes with me nor do I feel like I want to have a threesome with them-- know what I mean? Did you guys talk about this over drinks that night?
As far as your sex life, this could very well have something to do with it. He could be let down by the fact that you're not up for sex with him and a stranger-- don't be afraid to stand up for what you believe in. Now is the time to decide if this is the guy you want to marry. Quite frankly, sex isn't a reward-- so, I don't quite understand what he is asking you to "earn". It seems to me like you are not on the same page and it needs to be addressed with honesty so that he knows what you want and you know what he wants. Whether or not he is cheating on you is not for me to say but you are a woman-- always follow your intuition.
Good Luck,
Rosa
August 29, 2011 - 9:05amThis Comment
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