Well, that it quite the story to tell about your first sexual encounter. How old are you both? If you don't mind me asking. If you are in your teens, it is not uncommon for a teenage boy to ejaculate simply by being aroused by you. Although I can certainly understand why you laughed-- it was your first time, this was something you weren't expecting, etc. You should make amends with him, not only because you want to continue seeing him but because he definitely thought you were laughing at him at a very vulnerable state.
If you have his phone number, text him that you need to talk to him because there seemed to be a misunderstanding the other night and that you really like him and would like to see him again. When you do have him in front of you, start off by apologizing and let him know that a combination of your nerves, awe, and given that it was your first time were what made you start laughing. You never meant to hurt his feelings but that you realize that if you were in his shoes, you would have also felt hurt and embarrassed. End it by saying that you understand if he doesn't want to speak to you or would like some time to himself, but that if you could go back you would tell him how much you liked him and how amazed you were by something that was 100% new to you.
You can reword this however you like, this is just to give you an idea of what to say in your apology. It will be fine. If he is a mature young man, he will accept your apology. If he doesn't, just let it go until he comes around on his own.
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Hi NiccyT,
Well, that it quite the story to tell about your first sexual encounter. How old are you both? If you don't mind me asking. If you are in your teens, it is not uncommon for a teenage boy to ejaculate simply by being aroused by you. Although I can certainly understand why you laughed-- it was your first time, this was something you weren't expecting, etc. You should make amends with him, not only because you want to continue seeing him but because he definitely thought you were laughing at him at a very vulnerable state.
If you have his phone number, text him that you need to talk to him because there seemed to be a misunderstanding the other night and that you really like him and would like to see him again. When you do have him in front of you, start off by apologizing and let him know that a combination of your nerves, awe, and given that it was your first time were what made you start laughing. You never meant to hurt his feelings but that you realize that if you were in his shoes, you would have also felt hurt and embarrassed. End it by saying that you understand if he doesn't want to speak to you or would like some time to himself, but that if you could go back you would tell him how much you liked him and how amazed you were by something that was 100% new to you.
You can reword this however you like, this is just to give you an idea of what to say in your apology. It will be fine. If he is a mature young man, he will accept your apology. If he doesn't, just let it go until he comes around on his own.
Good luck to you,
Rosa
September 7, 2011 - 7:29amThis Comment
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