I also wanted to say that your last comments really hit home hard! They shook me to really think about everything. In the past month, they have been lingering in the back of my mind and turning me towards positive direction. They were also the reason behind the courage that I found to talk honestly and firmly to #2, thank you for giving me the right advice. Tomorrow, #2 and I are going to talk about more in detail but I am not disagreeing with him. It will do him good and do me good too. I hope he chooses his family especially his son who loves and wants him at the end of the day.