Hey Anon,
No, the best way will not to disclose the snooping around (plus hey we also as women have the right to our own space, right?). Talk to him and tell him how you exactly feel when he comes home but if I were you, I would make the environment nice and pleasant so that your conversation goes well. I think I have shared my best conversations with whom I have dated either over a glass of wine sitting outside or with a cup of tea in the deck outside away from the hustle and bustle of home. It makes you think clearly. I would even suggest talk it out by going out for a walk where its just both you and him. You should help him feel better. Of course, I knew his feelings hadn't changed. The fact that he moved in with you says a lot about how he feels towards you.
You did the right thing by texting him. It was a much needed first step! Best of luck and do keep us updated!
All the best!
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Hey Anon,
September 14, 2011 - 8:05amNo, the best way will not to disclose the snooping around (plus hey we also as women have the right to our own space, right?). Talk to him and tell him how you exactly feel when he comes home but if I were you, I would make the environment nice and pleasant so that your conversation goes well. I think I have shared my best conversations with whom I have dated either over a glass of wine sitting outside or with a cup of tea in the deck outside away from the hustle and bustle of home. It makes you think clearly. I would even suggest talk it out by going out for a walk where its just both you and him. You should help him feel better. Of course, I knew his feelings hadn't changed. The fact that he moved in with you says a lot about how he feels towards you.
You did the right thing by texting him. It was a much needed first step! Best of luck and do keep us updated!
All the best!
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