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i just want to add a correction: what i meant here:
"and came to the point where i have to lie to my boyfriend i am sleeping there because i spend most of my free time with my friend, my boyfriend doesn't really know how bad the things are and would definitely get annoyed if he knew, but i can't tell him all this. my friend never made a move with me in our entire lives, so it's NOT because me and my friend are hiding an affair"
i missed out that NOT part, the phrase was really long and i am really upset in this moment - as i said this person is like a brother to me, i hide this from my boyfriend because our relationship is already suffering because of this, i already cut some time out of it to dedicate myself to my friend and if my bf knew i was skipping gym (i'd say i go to a gym but i go to my friends, i say i go see my sister & her family but i go see him) he'd be mad, i know. i know i'm doing wrong by not telling him but on the other hand how can i share something so intimate out of my friends life with someone who knows him a bit but not so well? help!