Hi jmars1,
There is clearly something not right because of her reactions and its natural for you to feel the way you are feeling. I feel the same way if my friends are not ready to disclose what is bothering them. If you have already asked her once or twice, and she hasn't responded, I would suggest to give her some time to come to terms with what has happened possibly at the dance. Whether she tells you or not, I would suggest be the best friend you possibly can be by comforting her that even if she did NOT tell her what was bothering her, you will be there for her regardless. Once she is comfortable, I am sure she will open up if she feels that you are her confidant and person she can confide in.
The fact that you are concerned about her so much that you are trying to find outreach shows that both of you are best friends.
Best of luck!
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Hi jmars1,
October 5, 2011 - 7:29pmThere is clearly something not right because of her reactions and its natural for you to feel the way you are feeling. I feel the same way if my friends are not ready to disclose what is bothering them. If you have already asked her once or twice, and she hasn't responded, I would suggest to give her some time to come to terms with what has happened possibly at the dance. Whether she tells you or not, I would suggest be the best friend you possibly can be by comforting her that even if she did NOT tell her what was bothering her, you will be there for her regardless. Once she is comfortable, I am sure she will open up if she feels that you are her confidant and person she can confide in.
The fact that you are concerned about her so much that you are trying to find outreach shows that both of you are best friends.
Best of luck!
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