And AGAIN! You've hit the nail on the head Jody! I've had to learn to ignore those piles of "what used to be", because even trying to think about where to start is too exhausting. It's sad that there's SO many of us that'll be nodding our heads and looking across the room we're in at a pile that has sat for far too long. BUT! In another way, it's so reassuring to know we're not alone in these battles. And oh my are they battles.