As I was reading your post, the first thing that came to mind is that this guy only wants you for sex. He asked you how far you've gone sexually, because he wants to gauge how to handle you in order to get into your pants. Guys who mention sex, before having a real conversation about anything substantial in your life, is only after sex. He isn't interested in getting to know you as a person. Don't take it seriously that he told his aunt and cousin you're his girlfriend. He wouldn't want to admit his true intentions to them or you, for fear of making himself look bad. As you grow into womanhood, you will come to find that guys will say just about anything to get into a woman's pants. However, true intimacy isn't about having sex. It's about being with someone who connects with you on such a deep level that it transcends the physical. In my opinion, teenagers should not be having sex because they are not responsible or mature enough to handle the consequences. Sex can wait and when you have it with someone who genuinely loves and respects you, then it's amazing. I believe God had a beautiful plan when he meant sex for marriage. It's a learning experience and I know everyone has to make their personal decision as to what is right for them,but everything I've said thus far, is out of concern.
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As I was reading your post, the first thing that came to mind is that this guy only wants you for sex. He asked you how far you've gone sexually, because he wants to gauge how to handle you in order to get into your pants. Guys who mention sex, before having a real conversation about anything substantial in your life, is only after sex. He isn't interested in getting to know you as a person. Don't take it seriously that he told his aunt and cousin you're his girlfriend. He wouldn't want to admit his true intentions to them or you, for fear of making himself look bad. As you grow into womanhood, you will come to find that guys will say just about anything to get into a woman's pants. However, true intimacy isn't about having sex. It's about being with someone who connects with you on such a deep level that it transcends the physical. In my opinion, teenagers should not be having sex because they are not responsible or mature enough to handle the consequences. Sex can wait and when you have it with someone who genuinely loves and respects you, then it's amazing. I believe God had a beautiful plan when he meant sex for marriage. It's a learning experience and I know everyone has to make their personal decision as to what is right for them,but everything I've said thus far, is out of concern.
November 28, 2011 - 4:19pmThis Comment
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