I had the implant removed over a year ago and nothing has improved. I'm sorry to say. I've been poked, prodded, scraped, probed, scanned. My Dr believes that a contributing factor is age and complacency. That actually, foreplay and romance is probably forgotten therefore sex is more routine/mechanical. She pointed out that sex for women is 80% mental emotion in comparison to men where it's 90% physical.
The result is that our bodies tense up and make sex difficult. I haven't explained or explored this to my husband as he firmly believes it to be my issue. I use lidocaine 2.5% internally to numb me completely and lubricate well - huge mood killer but as my Dr points out, men don't really give a fig about the mood anyway. It's not perfect but it works.
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Hi there,
I had the implant removed over a year ago and nothing has improved. I'm sorry to say. I've been poked, prodded, scraped, probed, scanned. My Dr believes that a contributing factor is age and complacency. That actually, foreplay and romance is probably forgotten therefore sex is more routine/mechanical. She pointed out that sex for women is 80% mental emotion in comparison to men where it's 90% physical.
The result is that our bodies tense up and make sex difficult. I haven't explained or explored this to my husband as he firmly believes it to be my issue. I use lidocaine 2.5% internally to numb me completely and lubricate well - huge mood killer but as my Dr points out, men don't really give a fig about the mood anyway. It's not perfect but it works.
March 13, 2016 - 12:07amThis Comment
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