Rosa - Mush better, thanks. Went to parade of lights last night - so a weekend with lots of positives.
There is a book called "What happy people know" that reminds me of your story. We all do best to "compare up" - so when someone comes into the psychologist who authored the book to complain about family issues - he sends them to the kid's cancer ward to volunteer a bit. They leave much more grateful for what they have in life. We learn much from serving others. Thanks for your story.