No one can make you accept the fact that your boyfriend goes to strip clubs or take the jealousy away from you. The fact is that some women are okay with their husbands/boy friends attending strip clubs with their friends every once in a while but no one really finds it desirable. What you may consider is finding a happy medium where he attends strip clubs every couple of months as opposed to every weekend. If your boyfriend is turning 18 and he thinks that strip clubs are more important than working on your relationship and respecting your feelings about strip clubs then perhaps you are better off cutting your loses and moving on to someone who treats you the way you want to be treated-- with respect. You are very young but clearly strip clubs will continue to be a problem in your relationship, the sooner you address this and move on, the better your life will be.
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Dear liv260,
No one can make you accept the fact that your boyfriend goes to strip clubs or take the jealousy away from you. The fact is that some women are okay with their husbands/boy friends attending strip clubs with their friends every once in a while but no one really finds it desirable. What you may consider is finding a happy medium where he attends strip clubs every couple of months as opposed to every weekend. If your boyfriend is turning 18 and he thinks that strip clubs are more important than working on your relationship and respecting your feelings about strip clubs then perhaps you are better off cutting your loses and moving on to someone who treats you the way you want to be treated-- with respect. You are very young but clearly strip clubs will continue to be a problem in your relationship, the sooner you address this and move on, the better your life will be.
Best of luck to you,
Rosa
December 29, 2011 - 10:44amThis Comment
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