Personal definitions of virginity stem from cultural, religious, and family values. To some, a virgin is someone who hasn't had sexual intercourse (that is, penis-to-vagina intercourse). To others, a virgin is a person who has not engaged in any intimate acts, including deep kissing, genital touching, and oral, vaginal, or anal sex. Still others may allow certain intimacies, like kissing and touching below the belt, while excluding other sex acts. Some people believe they are a virgin until they have sex with someone of the opposite sex, while many believe that people who exclusively have same-sex partners can and do lose their virginity.
With that being said-- only you can determine whether or not you are a virgin.
Comment Reply
Dear nalaa,
Personal definitions of virginity stem from cultural, religious, and family values. To some, a virgin is someone who hasn't had sexual intercourse (that is, penis-to-vagina intercourse). To others, a virgin is a person who has not engaged in any intimate acts, including deep kissing, genital touching, and oral, vaginal, or anal sex. Still others may allow certain intimacies, like kissing and touching below the belt, while excluding other sex acts. Some people believe they are a virgin until they have sex with someone of the opposite sex, while many believe that people who exclusively have same-sex partners can and do lose their virginity.
With that being said-- only you can determine whether or not you are a virgin.
Best Wishes,
Rosa
December 30, 2011 - 6:43amThis Comment
Reply