I'm sorry for your unhappiness in the situation. I think he is using that as an excuse for a problem that HE has. It's easier to shift the blame to someone else than to admit our own issues. If you want to lose weight, go for it! But do it for yourself and not in hopes that he will want to have have sex with you. Because I suspect that even if you lose the weight he will just find another excuse. Maybe bring up couples counseling when you think he might be in a receptive mood....I'm 20 years older than you. I had different problems in my marriage, but the message is the same. If you are continuously unhappy, move on with your life without him. Seriously, life is too short to waste being unhappy. I didn't throw away my marriage, but I waited way to long to make the change. I wish you all the best.
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I'm sorry for your unhappiness in the situation. I think he is using that as an excuse for a problem that HE has. It's easier to shift the blame to someone else than to admit our own issues. If you want to lose weight, go for it! But do it for yourself and not in hopes that he will want to have have sex with you. Because I suspect that even if you lose the weight he will just find another excuse. Maybe bring up couples counseling when you think he might be in a receptive mood....I'm 20 years older than you. I had different problems in my marriage, but the message is the same. If you are continuously unhappy, move on with your life without him. Seriously, life is too short to waste being unhappy. I didn't throw away my marriage, but I waited way to long to make the change. I wish you all the best.
February 10, 2012 - 11:25amThis Comment
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