This has to be the least helpful comment I've read. This is the second post which blames porn without a helpful suggestion. Guess what, it's not porn. Most men watch porn in some way/shape/form, and the sooner you stop blaming that as the arbitrary reason for a failing relationship, the sooner you will find the real problem. If you've been in a non-intimate relationship and you're not happy, have tried everything you can think of, then either consider couples counseling or get out. Is being on your own worse than these faulty, frustrating relationships? No. Relationship change is a two-way street; if you're showing all the effort and he's showing none, then stand up for yourself and insist on counseling. If that isn't an option because he refuses, then move on with your life- find someone who will value you.
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This has to be the least helpful comment I've read. This is the second post which blames porn without a helpful suggestion. Guess what, it's not porn. Most men watch porn in some way/shape/form, and the sooner you stop blaming that as the arbitrary reason for a failing relationship, the sooner you will find the real problem. If you've been in a non-intimate relationship and you're not happy, have tried everything you can think of, then either consider couples counseling or get out. Is being on your own worse than these faulty, frustrating relationships? No. Relationship change is a two-way street; if you're showing all the effort and he's showing none, then stand up for yourself and insist on counseling. If that isn't an option because he refuses, then move on with your life- find someone who will value you.
December 28, 2012 - 8:53amThis Comment
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