Ok. I'm not leaving him, I'm going to explore other options and I wish to expand that type of thinking, because the easy answer is always leaving, but isn't always the best option.
That said, I highly doubt I'll get him to see anyone for anything. He's not a very motivated person, but that isn't to say he doesn't do anything. I think thats a lot of the reason I don't get to engage in sexual activity often, so my plan is to figure out a way to satisfy the both of us.
More so, I guess I'm looking for ideas/suggestions on scenarios/conversations I could be having to change the situation. What has previously worked for other women in seducing their otherwise reluctant guy. What I should be saying to communicate my frustrations that I am still figuring out how to deal with. How to make him see how shitty the excuses he gave me are. I don't know how to put it into a context he'll understand/see the gravity of the situation.
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Ok. I'm not leaving him, I'm going to explore other options and I wish to expand that type of thinking, because the easy answer is always leaving, but isn't always the best option.
That said, I highly doubt I'll get him to see anyone for anything. He's not a very motivated person, but that isn't to say he doesn't do anything. I think thats a lot of the reason I don't get to engage in sexual activity often, so my plan is to figure out a way to satisfy the both of us.
More so, I guess I'm looking for ideas/suggestions on scenarios/conversations I could be having to change the situation. What has previously worked for other women in seducing their otherwise reluctant guy. What I should be saying to communicate my frustrations that I am still figuring out how to deal with. How to make him see how shitty the excuses he gave me are. I don't know how to put it into a context he'll understand/see the gravity of the situation.
January 30, 2012 - 12:07pmThis Comment
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