It does sound like your boyfriend may need some help. Unfortunately, it's not really fair to diagnose him as having addictive personality when he may just be competitive and obnoxious. It sounds like you are not very happy in your relationship and if this is the case, then you might want to talk to him and give him the choice of getting help together (couples therapy) or continue being competitive, rude, and blaming others for his lack of sleep, etc. without you in his life.
This lifestyle will wear out on you because it seems as though you are not an important factor in his life right now and there are about 10 things that come before you. You need to make yourself number 1 again and if that means breaking up for good then so be it. If he isn't willing to seek counseling with you to improve your relationship then this may be the road to take-- your happiness is first, everything else is second.
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Hi Katie May,
It does sound like your boyfriend may need some help. Unfortunately, it's not really fair to diagnose him as having addictive personality when he may just be competitive and obnoxious. It sounds like you are not very happy in your relationship and if this is the case, then you might want to talk to him and give him the choice of getting help together (couples therapy) or continue being competitive, rude, and blaming others for his lack of sleep, etc. without you in his life.
This lifestyle will wear out on you because it seems as though you are not an important factor in his life right now and there are about 10 things that come before you. You need to make yourself number 1 again and if that means breaking up for good then so be it. If he isn't willing to seek counseling with you to improve your relationship then this may be the road to take-- your happiness is first, everything else is second.
Good Luck in your relationship,
Rosa
February 12, 2012 - 8:50amThis Comment
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