It is absolutely normal for a woman to only feel pleasure if her clitoris is stimulated. Everyone is different, but this is not uncommon.
Sometimes it can take a while to get used to sex and begin to feel pleasure. Have you tried more than just a few times? Unfortunately, it isn't uncommon to not feel pleasure in the beginning. Sometimes it just takes practice!
Does she enjoy foreplay? Foreplay can often mean the difference between enjoyable and unenjoyable sex.
As a couple, you'll have a lot to work through. Sex may just be one of those things. But with practice, you'll get to know each other better and learn exactly how to pleasure one another.
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Hi mr.qas,
Welcome to EmpowHer!
It is absolutely normal for a woman to only feel pleasure if her clitoris is stimulated. Everyone is different, but this is not uncommon.
Sometimes it can take a while to get used to sex and begin to feel pleasure. Have you tried more than just a few times? Unfortunately, it isn't uncommon to not feel pleasure in the beginning. Sometimes it just takes practice!
Does she enjoy foreplay? Foreplay can often mean the difference between enjoyable and unenjoyable sex.
As a couple, you'll have a lot to work through. Sex may just be one of those things. But with practice, you'll get to know each other better and learn exactly how to pleasure one another.
Here are a few links that may help:
https://www.empowher.com/sexual-well-being/content/woman-cant-orgasm-dur...
https://www.empowher.com/sexual-well-being/content/ten-facts-about-femal...
Best of luck to you both,
Danielle.
March 30, 2012 - 6:49amThis Comment
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