I'm sorry that you are unhappy with your current sex life. It is not abusive to ask that your boyfriend not call you other womens' names during sex-- I don't think you'll meet any woman who is okay with that.
As far as deleting his photos, even though they hurt your feelings-- this is his personal computer and you can't or shouldn't just go in there deleting things you don't want him to see. This will only add another strain in your relationship and chances are he'll just get his hands on new pictures.
I think what you need to assess is your relationship and compatibility given your large age difference. This is a man with much more experience and perhaps a lower libido than you. Some men have a preference to other activities such as foreplay, watching pornography, and masturbating rather than intercourse. You will have to discuss this with him and then determine whether you could really be happy with this or if you will get tired and end it in the long run.
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Hi Anonymous,
I'm sorry that you are unhappy with your current sex life. It is not abusive to ask that your boyfriend not call you other womens' names during sex-- I don't think you'll meet any woman who is okay with that.
As far as deleting his photos, even though they hurt your feelings-- this is his personal computer and you can't or shouldn't just go in there deleting things you don't want him to see. This will only add another strain in your relationship and chances are he'll just get his hands on new pictures.
I think what you need to assess is your relationship and compatibility given your large age difference. This is a man with much more experience and perhaps a lower libido than you. Some men have a preference to other activities such as foreplay, watching pornography, and masturbating rather than intercourse. You will have to discuss this with him and then determine whether you could really be happy with this or if you will get tired and end it in the long run.
Best of luck,
Rosa
May 31, 2012 - 7:52amThis Comment
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