I see this was posted in 2012. I'm 30 and my relationship sounds so similar to yours. We've been together for just over 2 years but he hasn't touched me since 3 months in. Looking back I see that he never touched me--he just enjoyed when I touched him. But that stopped quickly. We're undeniably happy and have the best relationship other than that. But I get nothing from him. No intimacy. No touch. No compliments. No flattery or flirting. Sometimes hugs. I've come along ways as far as understanding why it hurt so much at first. A lot of soul searching and spiritual growth. Since he's told me he's never been interested in sex, I assumed he was aesexual. But he told me he's slept with almost 30 women. He's 35. And he also masturbates to nude photographs online. I understand he if has no interest in sex. But I'm starting to think he's just been hiding something from me. This is insane. I don't know what to do.
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I see this was posted in 2012. I'm 30 and my relationship sounds so similar to yours. We've been together for just over 2 years but he hasn't touched me since 3 months in. Looking back I see that he never touched me--he just enjoyed when I touched him. But that stopped quickly. We're undeniably happy and have the best relationship other than that. But I get nothing from him. No intimacy. No touch. No compliments. No flattery or flirting. Sometimes hugs. I've come along ways as far as understanding why it hurt so much at first. A lot of soul searching and spiritual growth. Since he's told me he's never been interested in sex, I assumed he was aesexual. But he told me he's slept with almost 30 women. He's 35. And he also masturbates to nude photographs online. I understand he if has no interest in sex. But I'm starting to think he's just been hiding something from me. This is insane. I don't know what to do.
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