Certain lines are meant to never be crossed-- dating your best friends ex boyfriend is one of them. This has nothing to do with you being a jealous ex-girl friend. They both need to realize how awkward this will make your friendships to each other and your best friend above all should care more about your friendship than about how some guy reminds her to bring stuff to school. Your feelings of "jealousy" right now are not because you care about him as a boyfriend, but because you recently broke up with this guy and now not only is he moving on, but its with your best friend. Don't fall into the trap and think that you may still have feelings for him-- move on.
If after speaking to both of them and they continue to see each other, then the choice of remaining friends with both of them is entirely up to you.
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Dear Anon,
Certain lines are meant to never be crossed-- dating your best friends ex boyfriend is one of them. This has nothing to do with you being a jealous ex-girl friend. They both need to realize how awkward this will make your friendships to each other and your best friend above all should care more about your friendship than about how some guy reminds her to bring stuff to school. Your feelings of "jealousy" right now are not because you care about him as a boyfriend, but because you recently broke up with this guy and now not only is he moving on, but its with your best friend. Don't fall into the trap and think that you may still have feelings for him-- move on.
If after speaking to both of them and they continue to see each other, then the choice of remaining friends with both of them is entirely up to you.
Good luck,
Rosa
August 29, 2012 - 5:19amThis Comment
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