Thank you for your question. I am sorry you are having marital issues with sexual encounters. What is a common misconception about marriage is that the butterflies and excitment will always be there. Unfortunately, these feelings tend to fade after a while and individuals get comfortable while something like sex becomes more of a chore for some people. This is not that uncommon as you can read relationship research which shows that sex is usually the first to succumb to the comfort of marriage. Companionship is a virtue in marriage and counseling is the right direction since you both are very young and "forever" is a term that most of us can only assume. I hope this helps and keep us posted on your counseling. Keep communicating - thats the key to marriage!
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Hi Anonymous,
Thank you for your question. I am sorry you are having marital issues with sexual encounters. What is a common misconception about marriage is that the butterflies and excitment will always be there. Unfortunately, these feelings tend to fade after a while and individuals get comfortable while something like sex becomes more of a chore for some people. This is not that uncommon as you can read relationship research which shows that sex is usually the first to succumb to the comfort of marriage. Companionship is a virtue in marriage and counseling is the right direction since you both are very young and "forever" is a term that most of us can only assume. I hope this helps and keep us posted on your counseling. Keep communicating - thats the key to marriage!
Good luck,
Missie
March 10, 2013 - 6:23amThis Comment
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