I can't help but comment on this, and my honest opinion is for you to seriously consider leaving this relationship now. I hope you don't have a child with him yet, that will make it harder. You are only 23!
I have been in 2 marriages and the sexual attraction can wane, but it can also come back. I can't imagine a man so young could actually say he no longer is attracted to you sexually but everything else is fine (so I assume by your note) He is lying about something, I'm sorry to say. You have a wonderful life ahead of you and sex with the one you love (mutual love and attraction) is your right as a human being. You seem like a loving person. Good luck to you. Make sure you get a therapist who specializes in sexuality and don't drain all your savings in therapy. If your husband does not respond in 2-3 months of therapy make some hard decisions and take action for your life. xo
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I can't help but comment on this, and my honest opinion is for you to seriously consider leaving this relationship now. I hope you don't have a child with him yet, that will make it harder. You are only 23!
March 18, 2013 - 11:19pmI have been in 2 marriages and the sexual attraction can wane, but it can also come back. I can't imagine a man so young could actually say he no longer is attracted to you sexually but everything else is fine (so I assume by your note) He is lying about something, I'm sorry to say. You have a wonderful life ahead of you and sex with the one you love (mutual love and attraction) is your right as a human being. You seem like a loving person. Good luck to you. Make sure you get a therapist who specializes in sexuality and don't drain all your savings in therapy. If your husband does not respond in 2-3 months of therapy make some hard decisions and take action for your life. xo
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