Thanks for confirming this with me. I think he is confused but he had also made it clear to me that he really liked me but also wants to get his life into order and focus on his PhD at this point but my intuition also says that there is something more to him and that's why I am comfortable giving him the space he needs and respect it but I want to clarify that he hasn't been aloof or anything in the past two weeks. He has contacted me and messaged me asking about my presentations on Monday and wanted him to keep him posted on the papers I was writing. I also asked him quite last minute for the housewarming party. When we had met for our date, he was already planning where he wanted to take me later as time went and wanted to share his stories but I do remember him specificially saying that he wanted to get his life into order and focus on his studies. Considering that he just broke up, I do respect his space. He has been keeping in touch but is busy.
Yes, PhD is time consuming but we are all humans and can manage a relationship when we want to. I actually did not get involved with any one seriously while I was doing my second Masters but now I am ready for a relationship and do like him and the other guy as well.
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Hi Daisy,
Thanks for confirming this with me. I think he is confused but he had also made it clear to me that he really liked me but also wants to get his life into order and focus on his PhD at this point but my intuition also says that there is something more to him and that's why I am comfortable giving him the space he needs and respect it but I want to clarify that he hasn't been aloof or anything in the past two weeks. He has contacted me and messaged me asking about my presentations on Monday and wanted him to keep him posted on the papers I was writing. I also asked him quite last minute for the housewarming party. When we had met for our date, he was already planning where he wanted to take me later as time went and wanted to share his stories but I do remember him specificially saying that he wanted to get his life into order and focus on his studies. Considering that he just broke up, I do respect his space. He has been keeping in touch but is busy.
Yes, PhD is time consuming but we are all humans and can manage a relationship when we want to. I actually did not get involved with any one seriously while I was doing my second Masters but now I am ready for a relationship and do like him and the other guy as well.
Thank you so much for your response,
October 7, 2013 - 6:49pmNidhi
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