I went to therapy years ago towards the beginning of our marriage to try and deal with the fact that I couldn't seem to be faithful to my husband when he was on deployments for reason's I just couldn't seem to understand. I was able to talk with my therapist about the things that had happened in my past concerning sexual abuse and I felt like I never really had much respect for myself because of it. My husband went to therapy with me, and he knows about the times I was unfaithful and he has forgiven me for it and we have tried to move on. But this was long before any of these issues began to unfold. (We've been together almost 10 years) I am planning on going to therapy for this because while I don't really want anyone to know, I have to be able to talk to someone so I can sort this out in my head. I am a full time student right now and not able to support my kids on my own, so I feel I will have to stay put for now. I am 95% sure that he would never touch our daughter, but if I am wrong and something happens to her 10 years down the line when she develops, I would never be able to forgive myself for not doing something about it. He is such a wonderful man in all other aspects and takes great care of me and our family, I never in a million years thought that I would have to deal with something like this from him.
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I went to therapy years ago towards the beginning of our marriage to try and deal with the fact that I couldn't seem to be faithful to my husband when he was on deployments for reason's I just couldn't seem to understand. I was able to talk with my therapist about the things that had happened in my past concerning sexual abuse and I felt like I never really had much respect for myself because of it. My husband went to therapy with me, and he knows about the times I was unfaithful and he has forgiven me for it and we have tried to move on. But this was long before any of these issues began to unfold. (We've been together almost 10 years) I am planning on going to therapy for this because while I don't really want anyone to know, I have to be able to talk to someone so I can sort this out in my head. I am a full time student right now and not able to support my kids on my own, so I feel I will have to stay put for now. I am 95% sure that he would never touch our daughter, but if I am wrong and something happens to her 10 years down the line when she develops, I would never be able to forgive myself for not doing something about it. He is such a wonderful man in all other aspects and takes great care of me and our family, I never in a million years thought that I would have to deal with something like this from him.
October 16, 2013 - 1:11pmThis Comment
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