My boyfriend and I have been together now a year and 2 months exactly and I remember our sex life starting of great but very quickly stopping we haven't had sex now in about a month and a week and I hate it because I love sex, connecting with him in a physical way but he doesn't, even if I try to get something to happen, it's the same, he will never let it happen. I know he loves me alot and he's always telling me he loves me he treats me with so much respect aswell.
I am younger than him I'm 19 and he's just turned 28. He is on a medication because of past stuff and when I read about it, it said that if it's a strong medication it could lower his sex drive but I wish he could just try when he knows how hard I try, it's killing me. I was talking to my guy friend about it all and he said it wouldn't be an age thing it's probably just how he feels And it's not fair. Things I've said I like about sex he has said are weird and he wouldnt do. Think fifty shades of grey for example. I would NEVER cheat on him but when my guy friend tells me about his relationship it makes me think why can my actual boyfriend be more sexually physical with me isnstead of just wanting to cuddle. It's so frustrating and every time I ask him about it, he pushes the confersation away and changes the subject immediately. I don't know what to do. It even makes me cry. It's really getting to me.
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My boyfriend and I have been together now a year and 2 months exactly and I remember our sex life starting of great but very quickly stopping we haven't had sex now in about a month and a week and I hate it because I love sex, connecting with him in a physical way but he doesn't, even if I try to get something to happen, it's the same, he will never let it happen. I know he loves me alot and he's always telling me he loves me he treats me with so much respect aswell.
December 2, 2014 - 4:47amI am younger than him I'm 19 and he's just turned 28. He is on a medication because of past stuff and when I read about it, it said that if it's a strong medication it could lower his sex drive but I wish he could just try when he knows how hard I try, it's killing me. I was talking to my guy friend about it all and he said it wouldn't be an age thing it's probably just how he feels And it's not fair. Things I've said I like about sex he has said are weird and he wouldnt do. Think fifty shades of grey for example. I would NEVER cheat on him but when my guy friend tells me about his relationship it makes me think why can my actual boyfriend be more sexually physical with me isnstead of just wanting to cuddle. It's so frustrating and every time I ask him about it, he pushes the confersation away and changes the subject immediately. I don't know what to do. It even makes me cry. It's really getting to me.
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