My Boyfriend and I have been together 10 months and things have only recently started to go down hill as far as sex is concerned. I am 18 and with out trying to sound slutty have been having having sex since I was 16 and meet my first boyfriend and have had several other sexual partners since then. (always wearing a condom and with and implant). My boyfriend and I meet under difficult circumstance as he was still with his ex, who was my friend, and we didn't want to hurt her, we never had sex or even kissed let alone did anything more than the odd message to each other. so as you can imagine when he ended things with her and we could finally be together, well... we were all over each other all the time, everywhere, still kind of sneaking around as it was a bit soon but we just couldn't wait!
Now we are public and the thrill of sneaky sexy and new sex has just seemed to die :( I still really want sex and seem to find myself masturbating when he is not around so not to offend him but when he does occasionally want to sleep with me he get out of breath due to the fact that "my asthma is playing up because your room is damp" (we are living with my parents) or because his "cough is bad today" (he smokes) which means he either thinks its ok to finish and leave me unsatisfied or just give up.
I don't know how we have got to this and I don't know how to get out! I don't want to end things because I love him and i have no doubt that he loves me too, but at the same time I don't know what to do? I have even pulled out the Victoria secret undies and I doesn't work what else is there to do?
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My Boyfriend and I have been together 10 months and things have only recently started to go down hill as far as sex is concerned. I am 18 and with out trying to sound slutty have been having having sex since I was 16 and meet my first boyfriend and have had several other sexual partners since then. (always wearing a condom and with and implant). My boyfriend and I meet under difficult circumstance as he was still with his ex, who was my friend, and we didn't want to hurt her, we never had sex or even kissed let alone did anything more than the odd message to each other. so as you can imagine when he ended things with her and we could finally be together, well... we were all over each other all the time, everywhere, still kind of sneaking around as it was a bit soon but we just couldn't wait!
Now we are public and the thrill of sneaky sexy and new sex has just seemed to die :( I still really want sex and seem to find myself masturbating when he is not around so not to offend him but when he does occasionally want to sleep with me he get out of breath due to the fact that "my asthma is playing up because your room is damp" (we are living with my parents) or because his "cough is bad today" (he smokes) which means he either thinks its ok to finish and leave me unsatisfied or just give up.
I don't know how we have got to this and I don't know how to get out! I don't want to end things because I love him and i have no doubt that he loves me too, but at the same time I don't know what to do? I have even pulled out the Victoria secret undies and I doesn't work what else is there to do?
March 19, 2015 - 8:39amThis Comment
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